March 2012
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It’s been a year and a half since we parted ways. I don’t miss you. I do, however, miss the way I felt. You didn’t love me the way I loved you. I know I won’t feel that way about anyone ever again, until I find the man I’ll marry. Even still, I wasted the good shit on you.
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We broke up because your self-destructive habits were starting rub off on me.
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You said that you wanted more than I could ever give you. You were right.
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We didn’t actually break up, because we never went out. We were just good enough friends that I thought I could talk to you. I also thought that because we were friends, you would explain yourself to me on occasion. I, being naive enough to think these things, was hurt when you didn’t talk to me for months. When I told you this, in a private letter, you still didn’t talk to...
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We broke up because i refused to call him daddy. He said all his previous girlfriends called him that and it was considered a norm. Unfortunately, i don’t think calling a man daddy is normal!
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You cheated on me, but I took you back. You never lifted a finger to help me with anything, but you expected me to help you with everything. You said you were getting married to a girl you didn’t know, but you still wanted me as a “friend”. You hurt me, but you told me it was my fault.
That’s why I left.
8 breakups...
Out of them all …I can only think of yesterday. Of how I wouldn’t answer the phone as he called me time after time (14 times) how I made my friend text him that we were breaking up, how we were sitting there making cutesy eyes at each other and he, he was just a few miles away not even knowing what he could have done wrong, so he pretended to be James and I told “Him” the...
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Maybe I didn’t know you enough like you said. Maybe we fell in love at the right place at the wrong time. We were in love, just too busy with other things. Maybe I pushed instead of pulled.
Maybe, just maybe. The funny thing is, we never officially broke up, we just stopped and never spoke of it again. We kept it cool and remained as friends, but I wonder, I just wonder what you had...
February 2012
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Why We Broke Up
We never started. You loved her, not me, but in fairness, you never knew I loved you. We talked every day and you even comforted me once when I cried. You took my side in fights and you hung out with me in town on a whim. But you never actually knew me how I knew you, but you didn’t care that you didn’t know me, and that’s why we broke up.
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We broke up because the distance became too big of a burden to bear.
I guess we were never really together, but that possibility was completely destroyed once you decided to ignore me over the summer. Fuck, I knew I shouldn’t have given you that damn paper crane on your birthday!
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She apparently just lost her feelings for me, despite previously convincing me that it was going to last. I never asked about the problems I didn’t know were going on. Never objected to her spending inordinately long periods of time with a “friend”. Next thing I knew, I was dumped, and she had found another guy.
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You no longer want a commitment. But as far as I remember, you said “I love you” first.
We broke up because you were good at making me feel like crap about myself, and letting me believe you were perfect.
Screw you. I’m done.
I got bored and I realized I can’t be with someone so weak and spineless, that he’d let me walk all over him. If I wanted a doormat, I would have just bought one instead.
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I cant believe I was the one with a someone...
We broke up through text yesterday, he was sitting next to me the whole time, after I’d finished breaking your heart I cuddled with him and he kissed me. At least I didn’t cheat on you. But I’m not sorry, Even if he hadn’t of been there I still would have left you, I didn’t want to hurt you …I just wish I had realized that I didn’t love you before...
blessing u
you need real happiness .This is my duty！thanks all your gave and all your love!I can’t say anymore about how much loved you at that time.BUT I BLESSING U !
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I was never good enough for you.
No matter how hard I tried, no matter how much I did, it was never good enough for you. It became too exhausting always being perfect, because anything less was, well, not enough. I can’t believe I stood it for 40 years.
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We broke up because after 10 years of marriage you had an affair with someone 32 years your junior.
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you made me the cause of everything wrong in your...
I couldn’t believe it as first - being the root of the most incredible and wonderful things in your life. It was a warning of things to come. Little by little, I became the cause of everything bad in your life. You were not in control of anything. Good riddance!
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i made a mistake
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Too Much, Too Soon
She was the first person I opened my heart to since my divorce. We both fell in love
But I tried to make up 6 years of being alone in three months. And needless to say, I ended up smothering her because I had too much love to give and she could only take so much. I still think about her all of the time, I she probably can’t wait to forget me.
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To the latecomers are left the bones
We broke up the second time around because you never forgave me for being scared and turning you down the first time, and I never felt so trapped and incriminated by the past. You want me to follow you, but instead I might go all the way to Durham to see where Amanda Davis grew up. I seek these places where something beautiful started because I want to change, you avoid them because you think it...
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It was the last day of a camp where we were both working and the end of the summer our senior year. In a month we would have been together two years. You were my fist love and when I came to you that night wanting to talk about something the first words out of your mouth were “I think we should break up.” You didn’t want to long distance relationship, but I secretly think your...
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We had only been together for 5 hours when you told me you wanted to kiss me, and then made fun of my curly hair.
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Because i'm not chinese
I had a wonderful boyfriend who was kind, caring and a great friend to all. He was tall and handsome and i used to tell him that he should be a male model because of his beauty. We worked together in a grocery store; i was a cashier and he was a clerk and i would secretly watch him from various vantage points, choosing a cash register nearest to his work station grocery aisle. BUt then he got...
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When I needed you most, you disappeared.
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I wanted us to have a future, but you were never going to grow up. Sometimes I wonder what you’re doing, Peter Pan.
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We broke up because apparently I wasn’t good enough. Some of my best days were spent with you, I gave you everything, and I always put your feelings before my own. But apparently giving the best of yourself to someone guarantees nothing, as you later dumped me over facebook so you could be with the person you started seeing while we were still “together.” Just like Min, you told...
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i made a mistake
dispite me accepting your mistakes throughout the 1 1/2 years we were together, you wouldn’t do the same.
i’m not mad. i made a mistake.
i still love you
i miss you
We broke up because I was just a symptom of your disease.
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I was a mental wreck and my best friend had nicer bosoms and seemed intact. So you chewed apart my soul, and I haven’t been the same since. Even after a year.
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Papers was all you needed from me…
We met, we fell deeply in love, we got married and you left me. I should of known when I first met you. You had me picked out. I was working at the bank, you came in one day and try to get to know me. I thought we had something special. I did everything for you and I always gave you the best part of everything. I took care of you, let you move in to my place, paid off all your stuffs, and...
He was my first everything. After 14 months he wanted to “take a break”. I don’t think he ever officially broke up with me. He just let me follow him around like a puppy dog for six months hoping the “break” would end. On the plus side I’m the only girl he never cheated on, or so he says.
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You seemed sane at first, like they all do. But you were still in love with your ex-partner/current wife and talked about her incessantly. I even got to hear all the details of her nervous breakdown.
When we decided we would be just friends, you offered to set me up with your friend. I now know that you told everyone in attendance that day that I was crazy and still into you before I showed...
You did so many hurtful things to me, you were the one who moved on quite a lot, since after we met in person, that’s when you started to change. Before, you were still that same person I first fell in love with. Over the course of our friendship and relationship, you had a boyfriend, had feelings for my best friend and now, you have a new boyfriend. Although I still love you, I can’t...
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you met other girls
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Because You Thought Manners Are 'Dishonest'
I admit that at first, I thought the flashcards you made to teach me how to swear “better’ were hysterically funny. And I was half-convinced that maybe I was being uptight about you chewing with your mouth open, and about your passing audible gas in close proximity to other human beings (um, especially me). But the leaving the bathroom door in my studio apartment wide open while you...
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I told people I broke up with you because you lied to me, lied about me, and cheated on me. True as that may be, it was primarily because I was starting to find your presence annoying.
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We broke up because I didn’t understand why you were content being happy all the time… and you didn’t understand why I liked being sad.
(You seem sadder now. Maybe I should have waited a year before dating you.)
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If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you
we broke up because we were never right in the first place. what we did was wrong. I was a fool. I believed every word you said. you said you loved me and that you never felt this way before. you were my first love, but you belonged to someone else. I never, ever should have been with you. I feel guilty for what we did and I also feel so angry at myself for believing that you really loved...
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He wore green trousers. With Snoopy embroidered onto them. And hats, all the time, even indoors. He had to chew gum all the time or his breath would stink. He thinks I didn’t know that, but I did.
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We broke up because you didn’t value yourself and I was tired of your lying.
even though i gave him my virginity, I still wasn’t good enough. He found someone else who was.
We both discovered college in a big way.
He went to Harvard, then to Taiwan, and came home from China with a Chinese robe, Chinese tea and Chinese wife.
He decided one girlfriend wasn’t enough and needed 3! Needless to say, it was the best decision I ever made.
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You broke up with me a day after our month. I gave you everything. My first kiss my first date. My first a lot of things and you dumped me. Still it has been three years and I still can’t find someone that could make me feel as complete as you. The sad part is that I know you aren’t the person I thought you were; yet I would take you back in an instant only because I want to feel that...
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you didn’t laugh when I made some pun about your penis. I miss the blazes out of you, but I know that your inability to realise the inherant funniness of a dong hinted at a bone-deep difference in personality that probably couldn’t have been overcome in the long run.
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You're a terrible parent
I will never have the courage to tell you that to your face, because I’m scared that you will do something awful. I tried to tell you in subtle ways. I tried to get you to get counseling. Now even when you still ask me in your angry way, why? why? why? I still can’t tell you the truth.
But you are horrible to your children. And I did have the courage to tell someone. And I...